Mom - Happy 86th Birthday!
July 29
We were given permission to leave the mission field temporarily and return home to spend time with my ailing mother. It was a blessing and privilege to spend our days sharing memories with her and attending to her physical needs - sometimes around the clock.
Mom, what a blessing our being with you was for us! You are a light and a joy to all who know you. It was an honor to spend time in your presence.

Her home became a great gathering place while we were visiting. (Actually, it always has been.) Often, four generations were gathered around her bed, letting "Grandma" know how much she was loved and treasured. What a lady! In the picture above, are some of our grandchildren. Avery holds her brother, Isaiah as brother Dyson and cousin Alexa snuggle close. They wanted to see great-grandma and her miniature Chihuahua named "Puppy." Here they stand on great-grandma's deck at sunset.
Mom is a classy, determined lady and is still going strong! She loves people - has always served the Lord and her fellowmen, including two missions to England, and has worked on Temple Square as a missionary with our father.
And speaking of stubborn..uh...determined...Mom insisted that all her children study piano until they were 18 years of age - and everyone plays to this day. I, for one am eternally grateful to Mom for her rule that "You only have to practice on the days you eat." Though given in jest, we did need to practice. And because of that, I still today have a great love of music and a heritage of teaching that has lasted for 50 years. Mom was strict with us in our daily piano practice - not because she had taken music lessons, but rather, because she hadn't.
Her children would practice every day for one hour, two hours a day in the summer and would not be allowed friends, movies, talking on the phone, schools activities or TV (when we finally got one) until practicing had been done... properly and completely! She set a stop watch. When we goofed off or 'played the piano' rather than practicing she stopped the watch and added time to our "hour" of practicing. Ardell Zimmerman defined words for her children - especially words like discipline, commitment, duty and work, but also words like well-done, wonderful, honor, joy and success.
I began teaching at age 16 simply because "I knew more than someone else" and my teacher said that it was a great way to make some spending money. Having since taught literally thousands of students, including our own daughters, it became a way of life in my household. Our daughters were teaching music by the time they were 12 years old, through their teen and college years and into married and adult life. It has been the chosen profession of three of our four daughters since those very early years.
We all owe this great legacy of musical discipline to my mother who wouldn't allow us whining, disgruntled children to dissuade her from such an important life decision as learning to play the piano - even though it would have been much easier for her and for us. Did we love to practice? No! Did we do it? Yes! If parents today only had Mom's determination, kids would 1) know how to work 2) fell the joy of success in difficult things and 3) be very good piano players!
Thanks Mom, Grandma, Great-grandma!
You are one in a million.
I love you!